Archive for February, 2010

IMAGINE THIS…by Aaron Major, SCI Smithfield

Sunday, February 21st, 2010

     Imagine someone you love plugged into a machine which keeps them alive.  How would that make you feel?  Imagine being the one who has to pull the plug to end their life?  Could you do it?  Would you want to do it, or would you search for some alternative?  Heartfelt decisions are hard to make and are thought out thoroughly before being acted on.

There are groups of people around the world who are against the death penalty, trying to abolish its very existence.  These people thought long and hard about the inhumanity in sentencing someone to death, considering it a merciless act.  They would rather have a person sentenced to the rest of his or her life incarcerated.  Which of course sounds better than being put to death.  However a life sentence is not a lesser evil in this scenario.  Actually it is almost exactly the same thing, give or take some fundamental differences.  Having been sentenced to L.W.O.P., which in most states is until death, I know first hand that a life sentence is merely a slow and agonizing wait to die.  Imagine being told that you have an option of being buried alive, and have to wait to die, or you could be killed now and then buried.  Which would you choose?

A life sentence is another death sentence, just worded in a fashion that sounds less horrific, but by no means is it any less stressful, tormenting, or psychologically trying.  I would never attempt to make light of being sentenced to death.  I can only imagine the spiritually depleting feeling of those faced with such an atrocity.  It is too serious a matter to ignore, yet in that same breath a life sentence is its close relative, sometimes just as inhumane, atrocious, mentally exhausting, and plain cruel.  Yet this harsh sentencing is an often ignored topic of conversation when speaking of unjust punishments.  Ultimately you are still waiting to die in a ready made tomb.  Decades pass while you’re watching life without really being a part of it.   What is worse is since there are not many activists speaking out about this  other death penalty, you can easily become lost and forgotten in the system.

Now imagine having nothing to eat and slowly starving to death, then imagine having nothing to eat and slowly starving to death while watching other people eat.  A life sentence means until death…no matter how much you’ve grown, matured, and changed for the better.  You still sit in agony waiting for death to release you from this soul crushing ordeal.  How much more inhumane is that?  Imagine what must go through one’s mind?  Counting calendars and seeing the world change around you but not being able to participate in it.  Being told indirectly that what you have to offer is not good for society, peers, friends, or family.  Imagine being put on punishment forever, watching life through a window yet never being allowed to live outside of that reality.

Again I am in no way making light of the cruelty in having a death sentence.  I could not fathom such a plight.  It is well beyond my thoughts, but close to my heart as I understand the hopeless feeling one often must fight against.  I know very personally the heart aching pain of never seeing certain loves ones again in life.  The attempts at rearing children with words of encouragment, without being present.  Being affectionately malnourished and emotionally distant from all you care about.  I also need to be reminded that my existence still matters to those who love me,  being seen as a man, a human being and not just another body to fill a bed for some financial gain.  In the midst of all that I wonder who cares for those of us serving the other death penalty????

By Mr. Aaron Major #CJ-6184, Pa. L.W.O.P.  1992-?, The Other Death Penalty

I am So Sorry For The Past Month

Sunday, February 14th, 2010

There truly is no excuse for not posting a Blog for what is now over one month. By way of explaination however, I’d like you to know that my husband had been quite ill. He required surgery to remove a Cacerous Tumor, and he will require some further surgery down the road, both for his Heart and the Cancer. In the interim, we temporarily lost our number one office assistant. Our daughter, Mare left to have her baby. We are now the proud garndparents of little Jada…maybe not so little..she weighted in at 9 pounds, two ounces. It has taken all my time and then some just to keep up, or at least not fall too far behind the Con Communications business mail. We receive about 20 to 50 e-mails a day, and approximately 50 pieces of mail. All require some action. In the  past we’ve tried to respond within 24 hours. I’m now running about a week or so behind. Hopefully that situation will soon change for the better.

There’s also lots new going on here. We’ve taken on a line of discount Eye Glasses. The prices are really favorable and the frames up to date and appropriately styled.

We are about to launch a live Internet Radio Show…”The Joint Connection”. Next week we’ll tell you all about that.

We are also launching our first Service Bus Program. The Connecticut Prisons are our Beta Site. We will be running seven passenger vans from downtown Hartford CT to Osborn, Northern, Enfield, Carl Robinson, and Willard Cybulski. There will be two AM trips, one afternoon trip and one evening trip every Saturday and Sunday. Call 860 963 7720 for details.

Once again our apologies, and a promise that it will not happen again.

 

The weekly Blog will be posted weekly.